Brené Brown
The gifts of imperfection
episode 62
Each day we face a barrage of images and messages from society and the media telling us who, what, and how we should be. We are led to believe that if we could only look perfect and lead perfect lives, we'd no longer feel inadequate. In this episode we pick Brené Brown’s expertise on The Gifts Of Imperfection (buy on Amazon) and what we can do to accept it and succeed.
Show Outline
INTRO
Something Shifts Inside Of You.m4a -
Life In The Arena.m4a
- If you show up, be resilient
BLOCK A - CRITICS
The Critics.m4a
- Focus on what you control
How To's.m4a
- Brené - don’t listen to the critics
Reserve A Seat For Them.m4a
- Brené acknowledge it’s there
Seat Reserved For You.m4a
- Brené - we are our BIGGEST critic
BLOCK B - AUTHENTICITY
Pleasing.m4a
- Brené Signs of being off track, being someone else
Cultivating Authenticity.m4a Oprah Intro
- How the book came to be, Being authentic is a practice
Enough Starts With Enough.m4a
- Great Brené and letting unrealistic/wrong goals
BLOCK C - BEING IN THE TRIBE
Empathy.m4a - Great versus Sympathy
Sweaty Creatives.m4a - Brené Design is a function of connection
ABOUT THE BOOK
You can pick up Brené’s ‘The Gift of Imperfection’ at all good outlets.
Each day we face a barrage of images and messages from society and the media telling us who, what, and how we should be. We are led to believe that if we could only look perfect and lead perfect lives, we'd no longer feel inadequate.
So most of us perform, please, and perfect, all the while thinking, What if I can't keep all of these balls in the air? Why isn't everyone else working harder and living up to my expectations? What will people think if I fail or give up? When can I stop proving myself? In gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown, Ph.D., a leading expert on shame, authenticity and belonging, shares what she's learned from a decade of research on the power of Wholehearted Living ? a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness.
In her ten guideposts, Brown engages our minds, hearts, and spirits as she explores how we can cultivate the courage, compassion, and connection to wake up in the morning and think, No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough, And to go to bed at night thinking, Yes, I am sometimes afraid, but I am also brave. And, yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable, but that doesn't change the truth that I am worthy of love and belonging.